tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30978166.post5095078652767965475..comments2023-04-05T08:36:26.611-07:00Comments on Mad William: The White Zone Is For Emotional Baggage Loading Only. No Unloading, No Parking!Mad Williamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04938885566478066779noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30978166.post-53421162218654780272009-06-21T14:07:20.306-07:002009-06-21T14:07:20.306-07:00I'm sorry to hear that things are not going we...I'm sorry to hear that things are not going well for you.<br /><br /><br />~ZZGreeneyezzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09778533589569950220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30978166.post-75257241417139342312009-06-20T12:40:11.950-07:002009-06-20T12:40:11.950-07:00I know where you are because Vilay and I were ther...I know where you are because Vilay and I were there a little over two years ago. We were living with family and that wasn't working out so well. We didn't see anyway out of the big mess that we were in. It seemed so hopeless and I would look at my children wondering what the hell we could do to get out of it because I couldn't let them suffer. It was so bad that we looked into section 8 housing. The only thing available was in dangerous areas where guns were shot on a regular basis. Funny thing is we couldn't even get that because Vilay isn't American. He wouldn't have had the right to live with us. It was beyond hopeless. I seriously thought we were going to end up living out of our car with our three kids. Then, we took Vilay's parents up on helping us return to France and stayed with them for four months until the big break came for Vilay's job here in Switzerland. We still struggle at the end of the month but we are safe. We are secure. I didn't see any way out during the struggle but somehow it came. <br /><br />It did get better. Now, I don't take anything forgranted. Not one little thing. <br /><br />Don't give up. Like you said you have a little guy that needs you...both of you. My kids are what pulled me through. Without them I am not so sure I would have held it together.<br /><br />I know it is the same for you. Your son will give you the strength you need. No matter what, you have your family. You have their love and they have yours. <br /><br />Another thing. Talk to your wife about your fears and listen to her tell you hers. Vilay and I finally opened up to each other during our dark time and it was wonderful to be able to hold each other and cry together. We felt stronger. We were stronger because we stood together.<br /><br />Your family is in my prayers.Pumpkinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12394876163239997623noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30978166.post-29485324120113600442009-06-20T04:55:45.231-07:002009-06-20T04:55:45.231-07:00If no one is listening to your tortured prayers, n...If no one is listening to your tortured prayers, no one is intentionally picking on you, either. I find comfort in that.<br /><br />And I have your art on my wall, and some days your art is my comfort.<br /><br />Pulling for you, MW...Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01449228395262615338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30978166.post-42706484974997299042009-06-19T23:14:51.184-07:002009-06-19T23:14:51.184-07:00You are such a lovely family it breaks my heart th...You are such a lovely family it breaks my heart that you are having this crap heaped on you. You don't deserve it!<br />I don't have words of wisdom, I'm sorry. I can listen though, any time.<br />Hugs for you all!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30978166.post-21805861440026545082009-06-19T17:19:37.119-07:002009-06-19T17:19:37.119-07:00Life seems to be kicking a lot of asses lately... ...Life seems to be kicking a lot of asses lately... I'm sorry to hear that yours is one of them. :-(Dave2https://www.blogger.com/profile/15376066552003396828noreply@blogger.com